"Me and Mr. Wrong get along so good, even though he breaks my heart so bad!!" Baby let us tell you!! When this song by Mary J. Blige and Drake first cam out we had it on repeat for months! We were definitely going through some things in our life LOL! Anyway...we're glad that's over! This month, our Gay Bestie definitely hit the nail on the head! Of course he kept it Unconditional and Uncensored while still being Bold, Classy, & Oh So SASSY!!!

Dear Mr. Wrong,

It’s that time of year when we all start to reflect on our actions. Now if you’re still single and mingling you’re either thinking, “What's wrong with me?” or “Next year Mr. Right is on his way.” Well let me just advise you to exhale and throw a little caution to the wind. This thing we’re suppose to be living is called life for a reason, so start living it a little. Lord knows I’ve stumbled along the way and fumbled plenty of times whether it was with Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right Now. I’m sure a few of you ladies are familiar with Mr. Wrong. Before Mary J. Blige even sang about him a few of us bumped into him. He made or still makes you do things that should have you on Santa’s Naughty List for life. No shame or shade, it’s nice to walk on the bad side here a there, but never get burned by the flames.

The craziest thing is Mr. Wrong isn’t always a villain. Sometimes he’s that great guy who’s nice, charming, funny, and has the checklist complete, but yet lacks the “spark”. By this point you almost feel as if you have the problem, but truth be told we all live for that spark and when you feel it you’ll know it. We tend to tear ourselves apart over situations as such, but the lesson lies within the experience. Try and dissect the situation you’re going through and see how it’s developed the person you are today. Did you learn? Have you gotten wiser, or are you doing the same thing? Remember repeated actions with equations give the same results.

How do I know? Well, I’m speaking from first hand experience there isn’t anything like it. Many of my girls are probably waving their church hands now, but let me assure you it’s not over for you just yet. Yes, it may be cold out and you my feel a tad lonely, but options are still among you all. I’m sure you’ve heard of the typical outlets like getting a hobby, but I have a better solution. Snatch yourself a really good vibrator and get to switching those gears.

Don’t act like you didn’t see it coming!

Much Love,

The Gay Bestie

Well ladies...there you have it! 2014 is your year to start living!! Pick yourself up, put on your best freakum dress with those amazing new pumps you've been dying to wear, put on that hot new lipstick, and live your life!! Have fun, spice things up, add lots of  SASS!!!  If all else better get to switching gears! 

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