5 Life Lessons Shonda Rhimes Taught Us In Her Dartmouth Commencement Speech

Shonda Rhimes isn't just amazing at writing hit television shows (Scandal and Grey's Anatomy)! She can also can write a pretty epic graduation speech! Just ask the 2014 graduating class of Dartmouth College!

The Emmy winning producer went back to her Alma Mater (she graduated from Dartmouth in 91) to deliver her greatest piece of work yet: Dartmouth's 2014 commencement speech! In her speech Shonda didn't sugar coat things and didn't give the typical follow your dreams advice! Instead she told graduates to "ditch their dreams" and instead focus on the hard work that will actually make those dreams a reality. Her speech was open, honest, and most of all real. We definitely respect that! During the speech we couldn't help but take note of some BOLD, CLASSY, & Oh So SASSY life lessons that Shonda spoke on:

| Stop Dreaming Already and Start Doing |

"Dreams are lovely. But they are just dreams. Fleeting, ephemeral, pretty. But dreams do not come true just because you dream them. It's hard work that makes things happen. It's hard work that creates change. You want to be a writer? A writer is someone who writes every day, so start writing. You don't have a job? Get one. Any job. Don't sit at home waiting for the magical opportunity. Who are you? Prince William? No. Get a job. Go to work. Do something until you can do something else."

| Be The Change You Want To See In The World |

"A hash tag does not make you Dr. King. A hash tag does not change anything. It's a hash tag. It's you, sitting on your butt, typing on your computer and then going back to binge-watching your favorite show. I do it all the time. For me, it's Game of Thrones. Volunteer some hours. Focus on something outside yourself. Devote a slice of your energies towards making the world suck less every week."

| You Can Have It All...Just Not At The Same Time |

"If I am accepting a prestigious award, I am missing my baby's first swim lesson. If I am at my daughter's debut in her school musical, I am missing Sandra Oh's last scene ever being filmed at Grey's Anatomy. If I am succeeding at one, I am inevitably failing at the other. That is the trade off. That is the Faustian bargain one makes with the devil that comes with being a powerful working woman who is also a powerful mother. You never feel a hundred percent OK; you never get your sea legs; you are always a little nauseous. Something is always lost."

| Stop Trying to Be Someone Else |

"You know what I wanted to be? I wanted to be Nobel Prize Winning Author Toni Morrison. That was my dream. [...] Guess what? I couldn’t be Nobel Prize winning author Toni Morrison. Because Toni Morrison already had that job and she wasn’t interested in giving it up. [...] [Eventually I figured out that] I could dream about being Toni Morrison. Or I could do. At film school, I discovered an entirely new way of telling stories. A way that suited me. A way that brought me joy. A way that flipped this switch in my brain and changed the way I saw the world. Years later, I had dinner with Toni Morrison. All she wanted to talk about was Grey's Anatomy. That never would have happened if I hadn’t stopped dreaming of becoming her and gotten busy becoming myself."

| Always Count Your Blessings! Always! |

"Yes, it is hard out there. But hard is relative. I come from a middle-class family, my parents are academics, I was born after the civil rights movement, I was a toddler during the women's movement, I live in the United States of America, all of which means I'm allowed to own my freedom, my rights, my voice, and my uterus; and I went to Dartmouth and I earned an Ivy League degree. The lint in my navel that accumulated while I gazed at it as I suffered from feeling lost about how hard it was to not feel special after graduation ... that navel lint was embarrassed for me. Elsewhere in the world, girls are harmed simply because they want to get an education. Slavery still exists. Children still die from malnutrition. ... So yes, tomorrow may suck for you—as it did for me. But as you stare at the lint in your navel, have some perspective. We are incredibly lucky. We have been given a gift."

Watch the full speech below and learn a thing or two from Ms. Rhimes!

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